Over-emphasis on productivity can be toxic. An excess of
anything is toxic. It’s important to not overextend yourself. No one is functioning
at 100% all the time.
Mike Tyson once said, “Everyone has a plan until somebody punches you in the face.” It is impossible to plan for every outcome, so it’s better to be realistic and have some wiggle room in your daily plans.
We all have bad days, but bad days don’t last. Good days always come around.
It doesn’t matter if you’re sick, injured or having a personal
crisis. Better days always come around.
It’s possible to find good moments in the bad days. Use the
days to take care of yourself. You won’t always want to if you’re feeling
crappy about yourself, but chances are you have people who care about you. If
you’re not able to do it for yourself, do it for them. Take time to rest and
recover. Recognise your accomplishments. Reflect on what you need to do to
reach your next goal.
Sometimes in order to keep going you must stop and take a
moment to get your bearings. Life isn’t all about moving at breakneck pace to
accomplish goals. It’s imperative that you take a step back. If you’re not
feeling okay today, you should only do what you have the energy to do – and do
the things that are the most urgent.
Get better, gather your strength and move forward. A better day is on its way.
I have a confession to make. I don’t want a job anymore.
Let me explain.
I’ve had jobs before. I worked my ass off in these jobs. I get satisfaction from doing a hard day’s work, even if it’s not the job I want.
I’ve been unemployed for over six months now. It feels a lot longer than six months. While I’ve been grateful for having this time to work on myself and improve my mental and physical health — I feel ultimately lost.
I’m not annoyed at the lack of response from employers anymore. I used to be, but now I’m just apathetic. I’ve got to this point where I can only spend half an hour each day searching and applying for work. Whenever I apply for jobs, existential stress floods my nervous system to the point that even the smallest error in an application makes me want to throw my laptop across the room. I’m no longer surprised when I see another rejection email in my inbox. At least they took a whole 2 minutes to write an email to let me down easy.
When I talk about existential stress, it’s more like my soul is crying out ‘Stop it! Why are you doing this to yourself?!’ whenever I apply for a job. I listen to that voice but apply for jobs anyway. Why? It’s what my family want, its what society wants and if I don’t do it, then I don’t get that welfare payment every month that allows me to buy the things I need to stay sane in my current position.
I’ve spent a large chunk of my life so far living for others and doing things that I think people want from me. I’ve spent the last year and a half cultivating a disciplined life and a better mental state after my breakdown. It’s not enough, though. I’ve helped myself to a point where I can help others and do some good in society. I don’t think my role in society is a typical 9–5 one.
Everyone has a part to play in our society, and it’s more than our job title.I used to think that I was worthless without a job, but I know that’s wrong. When I say I don’t want a job, I don’t want a job to take away the time that I’ve spent working on my writing and my art. I want these things as a job. I want to go freelance. It’s something I’ve thought about for a while now, and I’ve been afraid of being successful in my passions. Now that I’ve written it down I’m not so afraid anymore. I think I can do this!